Girl VS Grown Women

Girls : leave their schedule wide-openand wait for a guy to call and make plans.
Grown women : make their own plans and nicely tell the guy to get in where he fits

Girls : want to control the man in their life.
Grown women : know that if he's trulyhers, he doesn't need controlling.

Girls : check you for not calling them.
Grown women : are too busy to realize you hadn't.

Girls : are afraid to be alone.
Grown women : revel in it-using it as atime for personal growth.

Girls : ignore the good guys.
Grown women : ignore the bad guys.

Girls : make you come home.
Grown women : make you want to come home.

Girls : worry about not being pretty and/or good enough for their man.
Grown women : know that they are pretty and/or good enough for any man.

Girls : try to monopolize all theirman's time ( I.e., don't want himhanging with his friends).
Grown women : realize that a lil' bit of space makes the 'together time' evenmore special-and goes to kick it with her own friends!

Girls : think a guy crying is weak.
Grown women : offer their shoulder and a tissue.

Girls : want to be spoiled and 'tell'their man so.
Grown women : 'show' him and make him comfortable enough to reciprocate without fear of losing his 'manhood'.

Girls : get hurt by one man and make all men pay for it.
Grown women : know that that was just one man.

Girls : fall in love and chase aim lessly after the object of their affection,ignoring all 'signs'.
Grown women : know that sometimes theone you love, don't always love youback-and move on, without bitterness.

Girls : will read this and get an attitude.
Grown women : will read this and pass it on to other Grown women and their male friends".